Relationship Conflicts and Personal Financial Disputes

**I am not The OOP, OOP is u/financialwoes123** **Me (28F) with my SO [30M] 1.5 yrs, I was helping him out financially, and I had a crisis that he doesn't believe just because I don't want to help hi...

Had a woman and her daughter come through my line today her daughter apparently had saved up enough of her own money to buy the pair of shoes she wanted for school because she wanted a certain pair so...

My wife's sister and her husband came from Korea for a 1.5 month visit together with their 3 year old son and daughter. Their son is uncontrollable, does whatever he wants, and does not listen to his ...

I am not the OOP, this was originally posted in [r/relationship\_advice](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/) by by [u/throwraiwantmysnacks](https://www.reddit.com/user/throwraiwantmysnacks/...

**I watched There’s Something About Mary for the first time at 38. It wasn’t age appropriate for me at 9/10 when it came out and also my parents were strict about what I was or was not allowed to pick...

**I am not The OOP, OOP is u/SquirrelUnusual4280** **He is going off on a 10 day vacation with his ex-fiancée** **Originally posted to r/GirlDinnerDiaries** **Thanks to u/BakingGiraffeBakes for ...

My mom died in May and neither my dad, nor I, have touched her phone in weeks, and her phone number is still active. The chats are a range from relatively new ((April)), to relatively old ((3+ year...

EDIT: I really don't have the capacity to reply to everyone, but I read all of it and I'm very grateful for everyone's support. This was very cathartic to write. Don't worry, I blocked him afterwards...

So, I (34F) have a sister (37F) who has a three year old daughter. My sister and I had a weird relationship growing up and honestly, when she announced her pregnancy I thought it would even go down m...

My brother (24M) has been on my auto policy since he moved back to our city, because his own quote was almost triple mine. His share was 310 a month and he was supposed to send it the same day my paym...

He was cleaning the pantry and unloading the dishwasher when he flew into a rage. He threw an empty box from the pantry and it hit when I was helped put dishes away. I left and sat outside for an hour...

**I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/Substantial_Buy_4881** **Originally posted to r/AITAH** **Previous BoRUs: [#1](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/DnoT9BXQKG), [#2](https://www.reddit.com/r/Be...

Earlier this month I called my future MIL by her first name. I've always called her "Ms. LastName" but since my fiance and I have been together for 7 years and are now engaged, I dropped the formality...

Hey Reddit, About two weeks ago, I was talking with my grandmother because my grandfather had recently passed away. She was completely heartbroken, which was understandable. While we were talking, sh...

Never considered I'd be in this position. Construction environment, we're on a billion plus dollar project. I'm purposefully being a little vague. My boss got bamboozled into his position. We were wo...

**I am NOT OOP.** **Originally posted to AskAManager** **there’s nothing I can do about my nightmare workload … right?** **Trigger Warnings:** >!hostile workplace, exploitation!< ---- [Original P...

My husband and I have been together for three years and married for one. He has a seven year old son from a previous marriage who stays with us every other week. I don't have kids of my own, so I went...

I’m really proud of Andrew. He climbed the mountain with me, which was the right of passage with my dad. He did a great job and really enjoyed it. It’s nice to have something we can share together tha...

I’m a 29 year old woman and my boyfriend is 30. Ariana Grande is my favorite artist and I bought a presale ticket to her show so I did not spend the crazy amount of money some people are. I have never...

I'm 30F and bought a condo a few years before I met my fiancé. It took me forever to save for the down payment. I work in marketing in Boston and spent most of my late 20s living with roommates and cu...

What’s up fellas. Just wanted to chime in here since there’s not too many people I can chat about this with. Im a dad with an almost 4 month old now and I’ve been pushing my wife to get out and have s...

Dating in general is already difficult, but the pool is smaller for childfree people. At the beginning of this month, I made a post on a childfree dating sub. A guy called J reached out to me, and w...

So I posted this around 6 months ago before I was really contemplating whether to still give the relationship a chance and whether to propose. This is the link to the original post: https://www.redd...

Just a short and sweet one because my youngest (8) is a little superstar. I was diagnosed with cancer back in March. I'm 3/4 of the way through chemo - I'm in remission though and it looks like I'm go...

In normal every day life I’m a feminist. I have a solid job, not in a position that’s overly ‘bossy’ but also not in a position that’s overly ‘bossed’. I like to and am in the position to be equal ...

Key context: I (f46) live about 1000 miles away from my family. A couple of years ago, my husband and I bought a few acres of forest land as a potential site for a future cabin or retirement home. The...

They would always force me to come out to party once I'm done with work on Friday. I teach from 1PM-11PM. Then I have 6 days of work and off ko lang ay sa Monday. I really don't want to go kasi draini...

Haven’t even met for the first date yet. I made it super clear I’m not looking for a hook up. He agreed. Then asked me if he could ask me a question…and you can see the rest

To begin, we said no outright. This is just another instance of insane requests from my SIL (28F) as my husband (26M) literally enabled his twin brother his entire life and SIL has expected the same t...

… so that I could have more time to do the dishes. I’m glad you came just to hold the baby. Yes, indeed having my hands free to do chores is a blessing in this postpartum phase, when I still can’t mo...

My husband has very poor communication. He also has little bodily awareness. This means when we're doing something like moving a large heavy object or fixing something together (we're both very diy ...

Told the recruiter I would not do projects uncompensated. Was then told that by recruiter that they didn’t “understand how I had a job”. Proceeded to tell me I was throwing a golden opportunity away b...

To give you some context: my dad has been in the hospital for a month and is in critical condition; he underwent heart surgery and was diagnosed with aggressive cancer. At the same time, my fiancé is ...

I've been in our community garden for close to four years now. The plots are allotted by the community garden board, and anyone who does not appear for an entire season and cultivate their plot gets t...

I (21M) help my grandpa (87M) with tech stuff. He's clearly showing early signs of dementia. Just signs tbh I wouldn't go as far as to call him demented altho I'm not sure if I'm qualified to judge th...

Widower is at the pulpit describing his grieving process. Super sad. Unimaginable. His wife beat cancer and then died to it a year later. He's driving somewhere listening to "angry music" and "cursing...

So earlier today when my entire family was eating dinner, my jerk, mysoginistic, military dad noticed that my nails were just barely past the tips of my fingers, and he immediately told me to go cut ...

Just pondering on what I could've been without my parents. Despite having no debt from college, no debt at all, I wouldn't be able to afford shelter. Working full time at the dead end job I had after ...

So tonight my husband asked to go to dinner and he wanted me to get there and put our name down. I had a super long tiring day with the kids taking them to the park, library, etc and he played golf t...

Hey everyone, would like some advice for my position. 26M and just got laid off from my tech job today (remote software engineer). In January, the tech director of a small nurse recruiting firm (<25 e...

Jokes aside, it is a huge position of trust to be responsible for sensitive moments and most often private topics. Remember to be respectful, y’all. But also, don’t go into full spectrum primary care ...

My duaghter lived with mother and her mother didnt do anything to prevent this relationship. I only found out about it a few days ago. When she found out she was pregnant her boyfriend cut all conta...

I recently went on a weekend camping trip with some friends and friends of friends. Two of them were a couple who very recently had their first kid. The birth was complicated and the woman nearly died...

My MIL turned 90 a few weeks ago. When my FIL passed we asked her to live with us when she was 83. She flat out refused. Numerous times over the years. Said she would stay in their condo and manage on...

We barely had any time together because it was just during his layover between connecting flights. But he booked that connecting flight and spent so much money just so he could see me, even if it was ...

Asking this because I know some men prefer bald over bush, and personally I shave everything as a woman. HOWEVER, I would not have hair then expect my man to shave, the same way I hope men don't expec...

My (32F) bf (28M) wants me to get an abortion. For context, I am white and he is from India. We are getting married at the end of January and I just found out that I am pregnant. During the planned we...

We’ve started talking 3 months ago. And we started dating 2 months ago. I know about her past, she only had 1 ex boyfriend that raped her, that’s what she says. So I try to never talk about her past....

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Our 8 month old is doing great and we’re hanging in there, but this ain’t easy!